Lifestyle

I want you to be happier

Happiness held is the seed; Happiness shared is the flower.
-John Harrigan

Happiness should be a daily goal for every one of us. Happiness shouldn’t just be a destination to reach in the future. Some of us have made up our mind to find happiness only when we achieve something either materials or just mere events such as; Buying that Benz that you are craving for, Living in your dream mansion, Travelling to Dubai for summer vacation and many others. We decide to lie to ourselves about a better tomorrow that ain’t certain and nobody knows really exists. This doesn’t mean one shouldn’t have wonderful dreams but it shouldn’t be the driver to your happiness, but a drive to reach success.
You should be the driver to your own happiness and you shouldn’t lease the key to anyone. If you can’t be happy now. You wont be totally happy when the dreams finally come true and if you are,
they won’t be a permanent source of happiness. You only see them that way cause it all you ever wanted at that moments.
Life has a way of tricking us into making a decision whether something is the key to lasting happiness or not, but little do we know that the only clear way to happiness is to cherish and live every moments in life. Instead of saying I’ll be happy, say I’m happy.True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future.If you lose NOW and the anticipated TOMORROW never comes, it means you’d live your whole life as a sad person.

“Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present.”
-Jim Rohn

Some of us could seems to be happy for the sake of showing to other people that we are happy. Some could be truly happy though while others are just seeking validation and love from friends as a way to live happily.People are keener to show the world how happy they are instead of, well, actually being happy. This generation is so obligated to social media and thus reveal everything going on in their lives for likes and comments.
You’d be disappointed to know that none of this people truly cares about your happiness more than you do and none of your friends will protect your interest above theirs. If people spent as much time worrying about what actually made them happy as they did to get a perfect angle for an Instagram photo, the world would be in a much better place.
Happiness is a decision and a choice. Take a decision to be happy and choose your happiness above everything else.You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of.
Happiness is free and you shouldnt pay to have it. Whatever you might be going through, know its temporary and dwelling in sadness in life wont solve it.
Some days are just bad days, that’s all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness, and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day, that’s just the way it is!
Depression is everywhere but it’s never a fun thing to be going through. Nobody cares about your depression until you commit suicide. Y’all don’t have no idea when death will arrive. Breathing today is a golden opportunity, a gift from God – to make a difference and be happy.
Cheers to a good and fulfilled life filled with happiness.

“Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain… To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices – today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it.”
-Kevyn Aucoin

A creative entity, big dreamer, music and book lover.

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